y live in the past? u haf to realise dat lingering in the past
wont change it...so she has a fling with a man...so wat? it doesn't
mean she's gonna do it to u again...at least im sure she's not frm
wat u said abt her...she is sorry for wat she has done to u, but
there's onli so much she can say! u haf to let her prove to u dat
she is sorry, and u cant do dat if u cant trust her to b truthful
to u...in fact, for any relationships, playing 007 and sifting
through her mails wont really do ur relationship much good...it
shows dat u dun trust her, and wat's a relationship good for if u
cant trust each other?
one thing i cant stress enough is not to look back. like i said, no
use dwelling in the past...trust me...there are lots more stressful
stuff to concentrate on in the present and near future...y keep
reminding urself of the past? all u can tink of is those stoopid
embarrasing situations dat happened...and it'll juz make u feel
bad...4get abt the past...hold ur gf's hand and walk together
toward a brighter future...trust me, it'll be a lot less lonelier
if u haf company...the road through a relationship is wrought with
ditches and holes...which is y there is another person to pull u
out...so treasure ur gf...u wouldn't want the both of u to fall in
together...else who will help both of u up? me? i bz lah...

PS: u may sae dat the higher u place a trust in someone, the
further u will fall...however, isn't the person u truly love the
one who has the rite to break ur heart? so wouldn't it b worth it
to take the risk in search of a better future???